Mohammad Hosam Al-Nahas
Our language and choice of words reflect not only how we communicate but also how we perceive and interpret the world.
As Benjamin Lee Whorf wisely stated, “Language shapes the way we think and determines what we can think about,” underscoring the powerful role language plays in shaping our perceptions of the world and the people within it.
In a culturally resonant initiative, Qatar’s Ministry of Culture has introduced the term “The Highly Esteemed” to replace “The Elderly” or “The Great in Age” in all official communications in the country.
Addressing elders as The Highly Esteemed transforms how society views them and, importantly, how elders perceive themselves. Terms like “elderly” may unintentionally convey limitations, while The Highly Esteemed affirms dignity, purpose, and respect. This shift promotes positive mental and emotional well-being, fostering pride and encouraging elders to stay engaged in their communities. Through this choice of language, Qatar honors its elders as symbols of resilience and wisdom, building an inclusive community that cherishes each member and recognizes elders as carriers of cultural continuity and heritage.
Many cultures globally have similar terms honoring aging. Some countries use terms like “senior Citizens” or “Golden Agers” to celebrate this life phase, while Indigenous and African communities often refer to elders as “The wise ones” or “Sages.” Like The Highly Esteemed, each term honors the contributions and wisdom of older generations, transcending mere age to celebrate life’s richness.
Transitioning to The Highly Esteemed reflects not only cultural respect but also Islamic values. The Quran encourages humility and compassion toward one’s parents and elders, as exemplified in the verse: “And lower to them the wing of humility out of mercy and say, ‘My Lord, have mercy upon them as they raised me when I was small” (Al-Isra: 24). Another verse, “And among you is he who is taken in death, and among you is he who is returned to the most decrepit [old] age” (Al-Hajj: 5), emphasizes that as faculties decline in old age, increased compassion is called for. In Islam, elderhood represents a time to reciprocate care, patience, and respect.
In Qatari culture, respect for elders is deeply rooted. Elders are greeted first, given the best seats, and often honored with a kiss on the forehead by younger family members. This tradition is now elevated through official language, blending tradition with a modern, inclusive approach to respect. The adoption of The Highly Esteemed invites society to honor those who came before us and reinforces the cultural and ethical foundations that will guide future generations.
In the words of William Arthur Ward, “A warm smile is the universal language of kindness.” Ultimately, regardless of the terminology we use, the true measure of respect is reflected in how we treat others, especially those who have paved the way for future generations. The ministry’s linguistic shift embodies this truth, ensuring that respect for elders is woven into the nation’s language, values, and identity.
(Mohammad Hosam Al-Nahas, Lecturer, Foundation Program)
